On the occasion of Ramnavami ,Ram i.e. lord Vishnu manifested himself in his original form in front of mother Kausalya,as his son,as he boon to her in her earlier incarnation.But the mother Kaushalya requested him that she wants that the God should play the role of baby and allow her(i.e. mother Kaushalya )to bring up the God Rama as a natural child.The vishnu/Ram obeyed and manifested himself again in a baby form and started weeping in the lap of mother Kaushalya and granted her opportunity to bring up the God/Ram in the form of child for the pleasure of mother Kausalya.So, the Kausalya always knew that his son was not an ordinary person.And she always allowed Ram to take challenges ,to fight and kill sinners/inhuman persons/giants without fear AND NEVER TRIED TO KEEP RAM UNDER HER POSSES

SION FOR THE SAKE OF HUMANITY,THOUGH THE GOD EMPOWERED HER TO STOP OR TO KEEP HIM UNDER HER POSSESSION ALWAYS.In the someway the mothers of Lord Krishna never stopped their son to fight for humanity.Do these mothers did not love their children?
I say, what has happened to the mothers of present era?why do not they spare/teach their child to fight for humanity,nation?Why do not they sacrifice their son in the interest of society?
I think if every mother thinks that his Son is Ram and bring up her child accordingly then definitely everybody's son shall become Ram. Otherwise during entire time period of his life a son shall remain under possession of his mother and later on under possession of his wife,being the most impotent person for the society,nation,humanity, world , universe and finally for the God.