Tuesday, December 18, 2012

People are going for love marriages.My suggestions regarding marriages in India, as I experienced:-
a)The best marriage is arranged, which is done after taking concurrence from the families as well as societies/communities of both, the would be bridesmaid and bride to be married together.This type of marriages are the most stable.
b)If the God would have been permitted/supported love marriages then -Laila- Majnu,Shiri- Farhad and Sohni- Mahiwal etc. would have been successful in their days.
c))Very difficulty parents and their relatives bring up their children,so their choices must be given priority for getting married by the Children-Son/daughters. 
d))Marriage is also the name of taking responsibilities of both the families of " in laws" and their associates .So it must be fulfilled.
e)Who will prefer to get married with average looking or ugly girls ,even if they are extremely good by heart and very much responsible,industrious also?As the beauties are the most dumb.
f)As per Hindu's scriptures inter caste marriages/love marriages must be avoided.As the offspring(i.e. son and daughters) of such type of marriages becomes destructive and may cause destruction/ major destruction to the society,community,nation from which they belong to.
The love marriages and offspring(means-son and daughters due to inter caste/love marriages or unauthorized sons and daughters)were only the reason of "Mahabharata" as well as lot of wars in this world.
However,taking dowry for marriage must be avoided as far as possible.

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