We must not be unhappy thinking that why we are male or female by birth.
If we are male then we must enjoy the facilities which have been granted to male. Enjoy as much as we can, within limit ,as per the rules and regulations, stipulated by the God/society, but never forget to take care of your family ,bear all pains to earn/arrange sufficient money to keep happy your spouse, children and dependents..
If you are a female then also enjoy being female, wear colorful cloths, put on lipsticks, use cosmetics to look more and more beautiful, eat whatever you want, go to shopping center/marts purchase the things you like, take care of your children, enjoy with them as earning may not be your prime responsibility, every day is holiday for you. Be happy as nobody expects you to work hard like me

n. You need not go to war. Be worshiped by your children and live happily, as per the rules and regulations, stipulated by the God/society, within limit, so that every body should like you as a pious lady. Lot of liberties has been granted by the God to women in each and every religion.
After all male and female are solely the same and wear at the time of taking births ,the cloths/dress of male and female in appearance to do separate works for humanity. So why to weep thinking that why I am a male or why I am a female .Of course people are punished when they cross their limits.
So be happy, enjoy what you are fully being thankful to the God, because to be male or female is not at all your responsibility. Every society has the highest regards to females.